It's weird, but I like Spuffy moments, such as the ones you've mentioned and in the episode where 'they missed the bed again'. I like the lines and the jokes and I don't get that upset by Seeing Red, but I could never actually be a Spuffy lover. I think they're great as enemies, as friends and I love that he has this huge crush on her, but as a couple? NOOO! And not because of Seeing Red or any other parts of the abusive relationship (from Buffy's side it was horribly abusive towards him...) but because she *does* *not* love him. She is blinded by his-having-a-soul-now. Argh. It's so hard to explain, but despite everything, I love Spuffy scenes, Spuffy jokes, but I just don't think they *belong* together. Why does Joss have to make this so complicated to talk about? lol.
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Date: 2004-12-03 11:03 am (UTC)