I mean, people don't schedule falling in love and a lot of people probably don't realize it until it's far too late so... And I'm definitely not justifying cheating in any way, shape or form (even though it might seem like it but it's because it just sounds weird when I try to explain my pov. Does it sound weird?).

Homewrecker is a bit extreme, I feel, because a home is much more than just someone's parents, or a relationship. To me, home is more of a place where you are safe etc. You can still have a home even if your parents separate (I have issues with that title regardless of who gets it)

lol. ONTD is definitely extreme.